Don Bosco Arts & Science College (Co-Education)
“Ad Astra per Aspera” – Through Hardships to the Stars
Principal
Dr. Xavier Raja Rathinam S
Principal
Surrounding Yourself with Good Friends
Dear Don Bosconians,
Happy to meet you again in a New month and New Year.
Happy New Year to one and All!Surrounding yourself with good friends can have a positive impact on your life in many ways. Good friends offer support, encouragement, and companionship, making both good times more enjoyable and difficult times more manageable. They can provide a sense of belonging, understanding, and connection.
Good friends are those who offer support, understanding, and companionship in both good times and bad. They are individuals who listen without judgment, share moments of joy and sadness, and stand by you through life’s ups and downs. These friendships are based on mutual respect, trust, and communication. Good friends come in all shapes and sizes, and they can be found in various settings such as school, work, or social activities. Building and nurturing good friendships require effort, time, and a genuine interest in the well-being of each other. Good friends make life richer, meaningful, and enjoyable.
Having good friends can also improve your mental well-being by reducing feelings of loneliness and isolation. Friendships provide opportunities for sharing experiences, creating memories, and laughing together, which can contribute to overall happiness and fulfillment.
In times of need, good friends can offer a listening ear, practical help, and emotional support. They can be a source of comfort and reassurance during challenging situations, providing perspective and advice when needed.
Furthermore, surrounding yourself with good friends who share your values, interests, and goals can inspire personal growth, encourage you to pursue your passions, and be there to celebrate your achievements.
Choosing good friends is an important aspect of life that can greatly influence our well-being and happiness. Here are some tips to help you pick good friends:
1. Shared Values: Look for friends who share similar values and beliefs. This can create a strong foundation for a lasting friendship.
2. Trustworthiness: A good friend is someone you can trust and rely on. Trust is essential for building a healthy friendship.
3. Supportive Nature: Choose friends who are supportive and encouraging. They should be there for you during both good and challenging times.
4. Positive Influence: Surround yourself with friends who have a positive influence on you. Good friends inspire you to be your best self.
5. Communication: Effective communication is key to any relationship. Make sure your friends are good listeners and are willing to communicate openly.
6. Respect: Respect is vital in any friendship. Your friends should respect your boundaries, opinions, and feelings.
7. Fun and Enjoyment: Friendship should also bring joy and fun into your life. Look for friends with whom you can share laughter and good times.
8.Mutual Understanding: Seek friends who understand you, your goals, and your aspirations. Mutual understanding strengthens the bond between friends.
Remember that it’s not just about choosing good friends but also being a good friend yourself. Nurture your friendships, communicate openly, and be there for your friends in return. Quality over quantity is key when it comes to friendships. Surround yourself with people who lift you up and contribute positively to your life.
It’s important to be cautious of the company we keep and to choose our friends wisely. Surrounding ourselves with positive, supportive, and trustworthy individuals can have a significant impact on our well-being and happiness. On the other hand, being around negative influences or “bad friends” who may be toxic, manipulative, or dishonest can harm our mental and emotional health.Avoiding bad friends is crucial for maintaining a positive and healthy social circle.
During your teenage period if you lay the correct foundation for your life,definitely you will enjoy the fruit later.
Have good and worthy friendships
Source:
- https://www.betterup.com/blog/qualities-of-a-good-friend
- https://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/adult-health/in-depth/friendships/art-20044860